…as a sexuality professional, I work toward a goal that is not achievable. I strive for a vision for the future where conversations around sexuality are plentiful, where comprehensive, inclusive and pleasure-based sexuality education is accessible for all people of all ages, and where the erotic is revered in all of it’s forms. It’s a vision where humanity is gifted the experience of embracing themselves holistically, freed from the limitations caused by systemic erotophobia. In order to live in that vision, my work also acknowledges and centers the collective need to be free from the white supremacist systems that bind us to oppression.
A deep dive into Intimacy Coordination & Choreography for scenes involving various types of kink and BDSM related play. Presented in Partnership with the National Society for Intimacy Professionals (NSIP) About this event This workshop will be a deep dive into Intimacy Coordination and Choreography for scenes involving various types of kink and BDSM related…… Continue reading Choreographing Kink – Workshop
This workshop will explore Justice, Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion within intimacy choreography, direction, and coordination. Presented in partnership with Intimacy Coordinators of Color. About this event This workshop is designed to explore the frameworks of Justice, Diversity, Equity and Inclusion as they relate to the field of intimacy choreography, direction and coordination. Throughout the workshop,…… Continue reading JEDI for Intimacy Professionals
Co-Facilitated with Nadia Maynard at Healing Joy Collective Workshop Summary: This is a fully virtual, synchronous, 3-Part workshop that is designed to provide active and accountable tools designed to assist sexuality educators in holding trauma responsive educational space. The workshop is divided into 3 parts, each designed to be taken either in succession or as…… Continue reading Trauma Responsive Workshop
Accountability In Our Communities: Creating, Maintaining, Sustaining Community Safety Co-Facilitated with Bianca Laureano, Ph.D., MA², CSES at Ante Up Professional DevelopmentVISIT THE COURSE WEBSITE FOR MORE INFORMATIONThis program meets the requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and is approved for 4 CE credits. These CE credits may be applied…… Continue reading Accountability in our Communities
This article addresses safety concerns in one of the most common Kink and BDSM practices, bondage and restraint, so as to curate risk-awareness for those interested in diving into the dark. This is an adaptation of an academic paper and included medicalized, academic language.
We are all survivors of harm. We are all doers of harm. We all carry hurt, pain, remorse and fear. To be trauma-informed is to recognize that we all carry the weight of trauma and that we all have the ability to hurt, harm and abuse others. Hold space for self compassion, take space for accountability and make space for others.
The Cure for “Post-Nut Clarity”. In this article, I explore why such low lows can follow such extreme highs and how important it is to integrate Aftercare and compassion into our daily lives.
The art of loving yourself in your language. No matter your situation, whether you’re partnered or solo, you deserve to be loved in your language. This article serves as a guide to help you do just that, to incorporate your love language into your self care and to set your intention toward self love each and every day.